Summary: Does your role in your school include coaching teachers, students and parents? How well do you coach yourself when things do not go your way? Successfully coaching others to change requires we consciously and lovingly coach ourselves. The inner speech we use with ourselves when things are not going our way will automatically be the words we use with others when we are triggered and things are not going as we’d like. Conscious Discipline provides us with tools to offer compassion, empathy, choices and more effectively changing how we coach ourselves and others. Listen in as Paola Salcedo, Conscious Discipline coach at Barry Elementary, shares her success of creating personal change and how she coaches teachers, students, and parents to do the same. Essential Takeaways • Coaching and supporting resistant children and teachers through change requires a connection, a relationship • Creating community among parents using strategies for building a school family increases parental attendance at school events Steps for Tomorrow Begin with yourself and changing your perception, see what happens in front of you differently Accept responsibility for your own emotions Get to know yourself – know your “triggers” and “buttons” and own them Important Links • What is Conscious Discipline: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8j3gF1dh_t4 • Barry Elementary: http://www.houstonisd.org/Domain/21281 • Power of Perception: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9g7k3aVqw4k • Conscious Discipline Coaching: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7O9F-2agVT0 • Time Machine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BIx8TdLxr48&index=13&list=PLC1FF90B6D998E9EE • Wishing Well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8L8MMrRkGQ&index=14&list=PLC1FF90B6D998E9EE Products Creating the School Family Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline Managing Emotional Mayhem Time Machine Wish Well Conscious Discipline Parent Curriculum Show Outline :22 What is Conscious Discipline 1:58 Dr. Bailey’s story of her golf coach 4:36 Conscious Discipline coaching model 5:47 Introduction of Paola Salcedo, Conscious Discipline Coach at Barry Elementary 6:22 Demographics of Barry Elementary 7:15 Paola’s position of Conscious Discipline coach 9:52 Time Machine modeling and coaching 15:48 Coaching teachers who are resistant to Conscious Discipline 17:21 One teacher changes her mind with coaching story 19:44 Increasing parental involvement at school 25:49 Story of using Conscious Discipline in weight loss meetings for parents 28:51 Story of learning from her own children at home 31:02 Importance of how we discipline ourselves affects how we discipline and coach others 32:20 Steps for tomorrow ConsciousDiscipline.com
