Summary: <br> <br> Finding beauty in your Now is the point of all power that unlocks healing, growth, strength, peace, desires, success, and happiness says my guest this week on the Mindset Transformation radio show and podcast.<br> <br> This week I interview Aireka Harvell, aspiring motivational speaker who focuses on transforming the minds and lives of women with her blog “Be That Woman.” She is also the Founder of Nodat Place Advertising LLC. where she encourages and promotes female entrepreneurship and offers daily motivation and support through her social media platforms. <br> <br> Today our topic is "How to find Beauty in your Now" <br> Aireka has a powerful story of overhearing a mother telling her son that she was ugly and that she would treat him better when she was just 9 years old. That tag stayed with her throughout her life and gave birth to low self esteem, becoming a Pleaser and allowing her husband to mentally and physically abuse her. Aireka lived in darkness for most of her life, until one day she heard the voice of God telling her to Help other women "Be That Woman" he made them to be. <br> <br> Today she has a huge following on Instagram and on her blog and offers Hope and Encouragement with her daily posts.<br> <br> Listen to find out How to control your mind and bring it under subjection when thoughts of fear and hopelessness threaten to stomp out your joy. <br> <br> Learn that there is opportunity to learn and grow from every situation. <a href="http://blog.myhelps.us/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/University-of-success.jpg"></a><br> <br> <br> The tip of the week from Coach Myrna is an except from the book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004I6DFRM/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1" target="_blank">The University of Success by Og Mandino </a><br> <br> A Conversation with our manufacturer (God)<br> God: Tell me "what is your purpose down there on earth" <br> <br> Man: Well you know "I want to work hard and not hurt anyone, and I want to get along with folks and stay out of trouble" <br> God: "But what about your talents" <br> <br> Man: Well what talents I have and there are not much, I take good care of. I kind of pace myself, you know. <br> No, No,No God shouted, your answers are all wrong. Don't you remember the story of the talents? <br> <br> Man: Yes I think so ... You gave each of three men a different set of talents. To one man, you gave five talents. To another man, you gave two talents. And to the third, you gave but one talent. <br> <br> "That's right says God: and some years later I checked up on each of these three men. I was pleased to find that the man with five talents had multiplied his talents by working hard, and applying each one. The man whom I gave two talents had also labored hard and multiplied them. But when I checked with the man I had only given one talent, I became very angry. For that man had buried his talent in the name of protecting it. To which I cursed him saying "thou wicked and slothful servant" how dare you not use the gifts I gave you. You Knew that I reap where I have not sown and gather where I scattered no seed. <br> Do you not get the point of this parable? <br> <br> Man: Yes I think so. I am to use the talents you gave me and multiply them to help others. <br> <br> God: Let me ask you another question <br> "Who is in charge of your life?"<br> <br> Man: I am responsible for my life - but with a few exceptions. I mean sometimes you just don't get the breaks, you know. Sometimes things just don't go my way, but that is the way the ball bounces or the way the cookie crumbles"<br> <br> God jumped to his feet "No, No, No, he shouted. "When will you learn, you are totally responsible for your life, no exceptions. You are totally responsible for the results you obtain. Not your mother, not your father, not your boss. It's not the breaks,
