7 Ways to Get Your Confidence Back after a Divorce or Death of a Spouse. - Transform your Mind with Coach Myrna




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Summary: <br> <br> Need to build confidence? This week on Transform your Mind podcast with Coach Myrna, I interview Confidence mentor Di Ridell. Di is going to talk to us today on the subject "7 Ways to get your confidence back after a divorce of death of a spouse."<br> <br> As I do every week, I would like to leave you with my tip of the week on "6 Ways to get your Confidence back or to build it up." <br> <br> Tip of the week: 6 Tips for Building Unstoppable Confidence:<br> <br> Building true confidence after the betrayal of a partner is a gradual process. No one is going to turn into a positive, self-confident person overnight.<br> But if you're in need of a place to start, here are 6 tips to get you back on the horse. <br> <br> 1. Stop comparing yourself to others.<br> The worst thing you can do is compare yourself to others. I know from experience that this is a confidence killer, especially if you are comparing yourself to someone younger. Remember that you're only seeing the surface of their lives and looks, not the underlying reality. Focus instead on what's important--your own strengths and goals.<br> <br> 2. Keep your limiting beliefs at bay.<br> Even the most successful people with healthy relationships have limiting beliefs about themselves, but the biggest difference is that they choose to focus on their strengths and possibilities instead of their limits.<br> <br> 3. Live in a positive reality.<br> Don't say anything about yourself that you don't want to become a reality. Positive thoughts and words alone won't make you a more confident person, but confident people do think a lot of positive things about themselves. Remind yourself of what you're capable of and what you've already accomplished.<br> <br> 4. Don't mask it.<br> Self-confidence isn't the impression you give others; but how you feel about yourself. It's all about who you are, where you are, and where you want to be in your own life and relationships.<br> <br> 5. Change what you can.<br> Confident people know they cannot change the past, but they can change the future. They make daily choices that lead them toward the future they want to live out.<br> <br> 6. Be fully committed.<br> Be fully committed to doing whatever you can to build your success every single day, accepting full responsibility for your life. If it gets uncomfortable, you're probably on the right track! Don't procrastinate, do what it takes without agonizing or drama.<br> <br> My guest today is a toastmaster's trained Speaker, self published Author , Facilitator and MC . Master Practitioner of NLP, Certified Life Coach and Confidence mentor. <br> Tune in to hear Di's story of how she was gang raped at 15 years, forced to give the baby up for adoption and told that she was worthless and that no good man would want her. She ended up in a 31 year marriage that restored her confidence until her husband died and she had to find the confidence to start over and date in the second half of life. <br> <br> This article from <a href="http://tullman.blogspot.com/2016/11/truism-3-when-you-lose-your-confidence.html?spref=tw">Howard Tullman</a> on <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/how-get-your-confidence-back-jeffrey-r-carter" target="_blank">How to get your Confidence Back</a><br> and <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffreyrcarter/" target="_blank">Jeffrey R. Carter</a><br> Says:<br> <br> <br> When you loose your confidence, you focus on your fears and not your hopes<br> <br> <br> <br> Powerful interview, don't miss it if you are lacking in self confidence. <br> <br> Show notes: <br> 1. Tell us your journey to becoming a confidence mentor. <br> 2. What is Confidence - is it magical? How we get and lose it? <br> 3. How has confidence contributed to what you do?<br> 4. What advice do you have for women 50 + who have lost their partners or gone through a ...