99| How and Why to Start Swinging (Male Perspective) - Cooper S. Beckett
Summary: In this episode Cooper S. Beckett gives advice on: <br>- Cooper's background and how he became involved in swinging (05:15) <br>- Cooper's highlighted swinging experiences (09:41) <br>- The importance of physical confidence (17:00) <br>- The negative experiences in swinging: compatibility versus incompatibility (23:25) <br>- Swinging as a "foreign" lifestyle without positive navigation (28:45) <br>- The concept of impermanence in relationships and seeing the value of a relationship regardless of its longevity (30:30) <br>- The biggest differences in Cooper's life since getting into swinging (35:02) <br>- Is there a transfer of confidence to other areas of life as a result of swinging? (38:57) <br>- The positive pressure put on oneself to better communicate in the swinging community: the ability to quickly access and the openness to jump in (41:30) <br>- How Cooper discovered his bisexuality, dealing with it emotionally, and bisexuality in the swinging community (43:00) <br>- The Kinsey Scale in recognizing there are varying degrees of bisexuality without identifying with being gay, as a result of having a strong sense of self and who you are (50:26) <br>- Interesting things Cooper has tried while in the swinging community (53:00) <br>- Practical tips for people wanting to get into the swinging lifestyle and make the most out of the experience (55:40) <br>- The possibility to learn from good, ethically produced porn that is often less traditional (58:50) <br>- STI / STD safety (sexually transmitted infections / diseases): handling it in the swingset, and in general (1:07:30) <br>- The peer pressure of introducing protection in oral and penetration sex (1:15:10) <br>- Recommends for finding practical, quality sex education advice (1:17:05) <br>- The best ways to connect with Cooper to learn more about him and his work (1:18:53) <br>- Top three recommendations for guys starting out in their sexual exploration (1:20:08) <br><br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-99-start-swinging-male-perspective-cooper-beckett/">Show Notes & Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-99-start-swinging-male-perspective-cooper-beckett/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-99-start-swinging-male-perspective-cooper-beckett/#comments">Comments</a>. <p> HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! </p><p> Think this episode was Kick-Ass?<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">An iTunes review would be SO appreciated!</a> This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you.<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">Click here to review the show</a>. </p><p> FEEDBACK </p><p> Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. </p><p> • Email: <a href="mailto:angel@datingskillsreview.com">angel@datingskillsreview.com</a><br> • Get my newsletter: <a href="http://datingskillsreview.com/newsletter/">Click here to get my Newsletter</a><br> • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 </p><p> MORE FREE STUFF:<br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/fasttrack/">Get the Fast Track Dating System</a><br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/gettop13/">Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time</a><br> </p>
