51| Accessing the Power of Emotional Transference - David Tian (Asian Rake)
Summary: In this episode David Tian (Asian Rake) gives advice on: <br>- How David was forced to focus on elements of himself that led him to become a "Rake" during his stay in China. <br>- David's relationship stats, background including details on the longer time he's spent in relationships vs many other dating coaches, including a marriage and how his dating lifestyle is today. <br>- How David ended up taking the name "The Asian Rake" which he first became well known for as an effective seducer in the year 2007. <br>- Comparison of characters in the public eye that David sees as Rakes, versus those that Robert Greene identified when we spoke with him recently. <br>- The natural Iranian Rake and the story of how David first came face to face with the results the Rake personality gets and got inspired to investigate it more. <br>- Different viewpoints of what the fundamental attributes behind the Rake are - do you have to love women? is there room for any misogyny? <br>- The dangers and anti-climax of a long seduction or build up before having sex with a girl, especially when it ends up you both ending up in bed very late at night. <br>- More emotional aspects of your character that you may shun, but can actually work well for you with women. Love of deserts, candy and sugar and teddy bears. <br>- The proportion of female friends that can help you develop your Rake character. <br>- How to balance your Rake feminine side with your masculine through investment of your time in manly activities. <br>- A strange Chinese historical story that illustrates some of the advanced mechanics of being a Rake. <br>- How men need to learn that they are not just one person, or personality, and access the multiple dimensions beneath them. <br>- Truth bombs: "You kind of have to be detached to get good at this.". <br>- Where David disagrees with how Robert Greene looks at the obsessive personality of the Rake. <br>- Blast from the past: Reminiscing on MrSex4UNYC, one of the earliest successful pickup artists <br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-51-accessing-the-power-of-emotional-transference-david-tian/">Show Notes & Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-51-accessing-the-power-of-emotional-transference-david-tian/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-51-accessing-the-power-of-emotional-transference-david-tian/#comments">Comments</a>. <p> HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! </p><p> Think this episode was Kick-Ass?<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">An iTunes review would be SO appreciated!</a> This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you.<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">Click here to review the show</a>. </p><p> FEEDBACK </p><p> Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. </p><p> • Email: <a href="mailto:angel@datingskillsreview.com">angel@datingskillsreview.com</a><br> • Get my newsletter: <a href="http://datingskillsreview.com/newsletter/">Click here to get my Newsletter</a><br> • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 </p><p> MORE FREE STUFF:<br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/fasttrack/">Get the Fast Track Dating System</a><br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/gettop13/">Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time</a><br> </p>
