|DSP 59| How Attitude and Standards Lead to Satisfaction with Women - Dr. Christie Hartman




DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast) show

Summary: Christie's dating life and relationships (02:32) The most common male behaviors leading to dissatisfaction with dating and women (04:05) Men have more problems with online dating (07:15) The meaning of: A bad attitude will scare good women away and attract the very women you hope to avoid (08:48) Ways a negative attitude will sabotage your efforts with dating and relationships (10:29) Most of the time a bad attitude isn't all that realistic (11:38) Understanding complainer behavior versus problem solvers (14:44) Things to do to start changing from complainer mode to problem solver mode (19:02) Poor standards is behind a lot of men's dissatisfaction with dating (25:12) What kind of things would you put into compatibility? (26:28) How guys mess up with compatibility (28:05) The impact of poor standards on your dating life (29:08) Defining your own standards (31:14) Gaining dating experience (32:38) One of the biggest trends: online dating and how it has changed the dating environment (33:26) Casual dating and dating overload (35:33) Selecting another person based on status (38:04) Circumventing the selection process by being interesting (39:44) Recommendations for actionable advise on dating, sex, and relationships (40:30) Top three recommendations to help men get better results with women as fast as possible (45:33)