|DSP 56| What Affairs Tell You About You and Your Relationships - Jayson Gaddis

Summary: Jayson's background: family life and relationships What is an affair? (04:35) Emotional affairs versus sexual affairs (09:46) Rationalizing and justifying an affair (12:50) Polyamory (13:58) Patterns of partners getting together that have similar issues surrounding affairs (15:57) Tackling the issue of a possible affair in a healthy way (17:07) Changing from a doormat in a relationship to recognizing what you are doing wrong in order to make it better (20:08) How to pick up on the possibilities of an affair? Unconscious selection (22:55) Moving from feeling to growth by addressing your own issues and focusing on what you really want (26:19) Is there any clear, determining factor that separates having affairs and cheating with open relationships? (29:10) Men as relationship commitment-phobics (31:00) Mutual growth perspective in a relationship (34:56) The development of relationship tools (37:01) Knowing what you want in the short-term as well as the long-term in a relationship (40:20) Relationships and sexual maturity (41:12) Top 3 recommendations for guys new to all of this and want to get their dating and relationship life in gear and have a great lifestyle (43:50)