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HealingLives with Corey Gilbert

Summary: Discover how to love and lead your family well and biblically. A podcast hosted by Dr. Corey Gilbert featuring issues important to building healthy marriages and families from a biblical worldview. Dr. Gilbert has a heart for marriages and families that honor God and one another. He interviews other experts, those with personal stories, and even uses his own kids to model hard conversations. He Interviews real people that overcame! He is the Founder and Owner of the HealingLives Center: A Center for Sex, Trauma, & Marriage Education and Transformation. Dr. Gilbert is author of 2 books and the Creator of the Trauma to Transformed Program, the Going Beyond The Talk Program, and the Healing Marriage Community, Intensive, and Membership.

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 Episode 303 - A Conversation with Jerry Dugan - Author and Podcast Host of Beyond The Rut | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:08:42

Episode 303 - A Conversation with Jerry Dugan - Author and Podcast Host of Beyond The Rut   Link to the YouTube Video:       https://youtu.be/dsVT_tH6y5Q    ABOUT: Jerry Dugan is the CEO and Senior Consultant of BtR Impact, LLC, a consulting and training company focused on helping leaders define success on their terms so they can live fulfilled, meaningful lives with impact and not lose their faith, their families, or their health. His work experience includes serving in the U.S. Army as a combat medic, corporate training facilitator, and organizational development leader. He has led in combat zones and corporate offices learning the ins and outs for building teams and trust through servant leadership.Since 2015, Jerry has been the host and producer of Beyond the Rut podcast, a show that shares encouraging stories and practical advice to help pull listeners out of their ruts and into lives worth living. It's not enough to get out of a rut. He wants you to live beyond the rut.Jerry currently lives in Dallas, Texas, enjoying the empty nester life with his wife Olivia. They have two adult children, three cats, a dog, and no car loans!   GO TO: https://beyondtherut.com/goals  Many people go through life aiming at nothing and hitting it with amazing accuracy. Your chances of pursuing and achieving your dreams without losing your faith, your family, or your health go up when you have written goals and parameters for achieving those goals. I created a workbook called Measure It to Make It to help your listeners define success for themselves and create a map to make their own paths in living the lives they dreamed of living beyond the rut.

 Episode 302 - A Conversation with Dr Stephan Neff of New Zealand on Addiction, Sobriety, and Mental Health (be aware of language) | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:02:11

Episode 302 - A Conversation with Dr. Stephan Neff of New Zealand on Addiction, Sobriety, and Mental Health (be aware of language)   Episode 302 link to video:     https://youtu.be/ACQyTdVy7I0    ABOUT: Dr. Stephan Neff is passionate about demystifying mental health problems and helping the people around him live a life so full of joy that yesterday is jealous of today. Born in Germany, Stephan has studied medicine at the prestigious Heidelberg University before traveling and working around the globe. Nowadays he has settled down as an anaesthetist in beautiful New Zealand and has become a bestselling author and advocate for mental health and addiction. He is uniquely qualified in this role. After all, a life time of trauma led Stephan to drown his sorrows, only to find that the critters can swim. As an alcoholic in recovery he has experienced addiction and mental health problems first hand. After successful rehabilitation Stephan is now an expert in living a life so fantastic, that alcohol has simply no role to play. He shares this passion through his podcast, YouTube channel, and other social media (all titled "Steps to Sobriety"). In his book "My steps to Sobriety" he shares the lessons he has learned as a doctor and as a man. And the truth is simple - The past does not equal the future. Every alcoholic can turn his life around, one little decision at a time. This book shows how to do it. But would it not make sense to start earlier? Stephan believes that it is easier build strong children than to repair broken men. His creative partnership with Belinda Managh has led to the beautiful "Esmee the mindful mouse"-series, which addresses core beliefs that are laid down in early childhood. The adventures of Esmee and her friends allow the children to learn about emotions and mindfulness in a playful way and help grownups to put these life lessons into daily practice.     GO TO: www.mystepstosobriety.com  My website is the portal to learn more about me, buy my books, contact me for future collaboration and apply to be a guest on my show.

 Episode 301 - A Conversation with Allen C. Paul on God & Gigs, Being a Creative, a Dad, Homeschooling, and Calling | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:08:18

Episode 301 - A Conversation with Allen C. Paul on God & Gigs, Being a Creative, a Dad, Homeschooling, and Calling   Episode 301 YouTube video link:     https://youtu.be/E6-pX_g-MUI    ABOUT: As a musician, creative coach, author and podcaster, I strive to help creatives in all walks of life to harness the essential tools to impact the world while living in harmony, abundance and in line with timeless principles. I've built multiple brands and creative platforms, written 4 books and resources, and run a successful faith-centered creative platform, God and Gigs, while coaching others to do the same with their gifts.   GO TO: www.godandgigs.com/questions  

 Episode 300 - Interview by Efrosinya Vshivkoff of Myself About Anxiety and Sexual Abuse - Jan 2023 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 55:46

Episode 300 - Interview by Efrosinya Vshivkoff of Myself About Anxiety and Sexual Abuse - Jan 2023   Episode 300's YouTube video Link:           https://youtu.be/dAr9T0It_GI    Link to Efrosinya's Podcast:  Anxiety: What is Happening to me?  https://anchor.fm/efrosinya-vshivkoff 

 Episode 299 - Dr. Gilbert Speaking on A Biblical Sexual Ethic & Why it Matters - from the Church Mental Health Summit October, 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 32:29

Episode 299 - Dr. Gilbert Speaking on A Biblical Sexual Ethic & Why it Matters - from the Church Mental Health Summit October, 2022   https://www.churchmentalhealthsummit.com/    Episode 299's video link: https://youtu.be/8yyjwOVqdtw 

 Episode 298 - Q & A with Julia Garrison & Laura Gallier on Age Appropriate Conversations - BSE Conference, Vancouver, WA -  August 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:01:34

Episode 298 - Q & A with Julia Garrison & Laura Gallier on Age Appropriate Conversations - BSE Conference, Vancouver, WA -  August 2022 "Biblical Sexual Ethics & Integrity Conference for Parents"    Julia Garrison www.makelevelpaths.org  Laura Gallier  http://www.lauragallier.com/   Episode 298's video link: https://youtu.be/fgldyDlMScc 

 Episode 297 - Q & A with Julia Garrison @ the BSE Conference - Vancouver, WA, August 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:47

Episode 297 - Q & A with Julia Garrison @ the BSE Conference - Vancouver, WA, August 2022 "Biblical Sexual Ethics & Integrity Conference for Parents"  Julia Garrison www.makelevelpaths.org   Episode 297's video link: https://youtu.be/4ithsxYhbFk      

 Episode 296 - Dr. Gilbert @ the BSE Conference, Vancouver, WA - August 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:49:31

Episode 296 - Dr. Gilbert @ the BSE Conference, Vancouver, WA - August 2022 Presentation @ the  "Biblical Sexual Ethics & Integrity Conference for Parents"  Vancouver, WA August 2022   Episode 296's video link: https://youtu.be/LtE7gsZ0UAU       Welcome to HealingLives with Corey Gilbert, a podcast sponsored by the healing live center, discover how to love and lead your family well and biblically God created sex marriage and the family for our stewardship growth and benefit my heart and passion is to teach, train, educate and disciple christians that want strong marriages and families. The HealingLives Center has been serving Christians since the year 2000. Its mission is to be a center for sex, trauma and marriage education and transformation, where we offer counseling, coaching courses and speaking services to you, your church or ministry check us out at HealingLives.com. I had the honor of this past year to present at a conference entitled the Biblical sexual Ethics and integrity Conference for parents. The subtitle was inspiring and equipping parents to wrestle with and live out a biblical sexual ethic model, sexual integrity and grow the parent child connection by a host of the conference was Julia Garrison. Um you'll see here in her in the beginning um and her links to her work is might make level paths dot org, there'll be links in the description. Um so here is my presentation, so some of you, um most of you wouldn't know this actually not some, most of you would not know this uh that this conference was actually gonna be last spring. Um I was gearing up for it uh and the name of that conference again, I love long titles, I don't just the name of that conference was going to be going beyond the sex talk, how to disciple your child sexuality. Okay, A mouthful, right? But that was the whole thing, right? It was like, it was catchy, I had sex in it. Okay. Yeah, so that was gonna be the title. I had all graphics done, I was about to launch it and um, a week before launching and promoting uh, schedules changed and it was put on pause now, like any of you, you might think does God not want me to do this? That was one of the things that went through my mind, right, was like, okay, does this mean I shouldn't do it? Like, you know, you're kind of wrestling with that and in the middle of wrestling with that. Um, I decided I need to re look at this and one of the things that I was re looking at is I want a psychologist. I want, I want someone who's familiar with human and child development with human sexuality, who has, who has a different view or a different look on this, not just biblical, but also with the human development piece. Um I, I know there's a lot of stuff out there about the psychology field and it's been used in negative ways, but did you know the root word is soul care, right? Like it was something that was ours before it got changed. Okay, so it, it's a good thing. Um it can be a good thing, I should say it that way. I wanted someone who had strong biblical ethic and who had life experience. So not only the psychology background in the human development, but also the biblical ethic and the life experience. I wanted a professional who was well seasoned and working in the trenches of human suffering. That was really important to me and with parents, fears also really important to me, someone who got the context while knowing hope was alive. So I started asking around how many of you know that God's a provider. Soon after I caught wind of the name. Dr Cory Gilbert, a psychology professor at Corbin University. So I googled it and of course I'm scrolling his page and I see PhD in family psychology. I see over 22 years devoted to counseling individuals, couples and families struggling with past abuse, especially in the areas of trauma, adultery, struggles with sex, sexuality and gender identity. If my mouth wasn't open at this point, I was like, oh I see published books, workbooks uh specifically on teachin

 Episode 295 - Session 3 Age Appropriate Conversations - OCEAN Homeschool Conference, Albany, OR - June 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 59:40

Episode 295 - Session 3 Age Appropriate Conversations - OCEAN Homeschool Conference, Albany, OR - June 2022   Episode 295's video link: https://youtu.be/-1gIvvaeUmY     https://www.oceanetwork.org/    Welcome to healing Lives with Cory Gilbert, a podcast sponsored by the healing Lives center, discover how to love and lead your family well and biblically God created sex marriage and the family for our stewardship growth and benefit my heart and passion is to teach, train educate and disciple christians that want straw long marriages and families. The healing Life center has been serving christians since the year 2000. Its mission is to be a center for sex, trauma and marriage education and transformation where we offer counseling, coaching courses and speaking services to you, your church or ministry. Check us out at Healing lives dot com moms and dads, this is for you. This is a recording of a session I did at the home school conference in june 2022 in Albany Oregon, the ocean homeschool conference and this is session three age appropriate conversations. Alright welcome, welcome. So this session a little different than what we've done before today um the agent conversation we're gonna really literally focus on birth to 56 to 10, what do we talk about how and some of those kind of things so hopefully a very practical application QR code years to access the handouts that'll be later, they're not on there right now and then the record the video recording as well and some other stuff as I continue to do that. So welcome, welcome now, let me start with the story, these are my two boys of years ago Alex and blaze. Um most of us when we, when we go somewhere we tend to have an expectation about what's going to happen at a location. So I love to go skiing, this is who do one of our favorite places to go. It's the last day of the season. Um People were doing some crazy stuff, There's a few up top jumping off with hang gliders and doing some crazy stuff. People wearing um interesting clothes and outfits. Well there was a number of girls wearing um sports bras and my son was like, they're supposed to be wearing those, it's like wear whatever they want business, little kid. Um And so then he went up to one of the guys and said why is she wearing that? Because he's got no filter and he said because she's hot, he's like, so which one is it hot temperature or Anyway, so we went on the day or continued today and then all of a sudden down comes the girls topless, I'm like, oh great, this is gonna be fun, luckily Blaze was nowhere to be found. He did not see this because he would have had a heyday with that one. Instead it was Alex. So I chased after Alex and I get to the bottom of the slope and there's Alex just wide eyed because this was not a small young, small young lady, old lady was not a young lady um she was quite large and she had flown right past him so that I passed her back to him and it's like, so the first time he's like, yes, like how did you like it? I'm not gonna say that cancer. That just totally embarrassed just a horrible moment. He's just shocked. It's not what you expect if you think of what we do as parents, everything we're trying to do is trying to protect them from certain things. Did not expect to go skiing, that they have to have these conversations and what we're gonna see today is actually most everything that's gonna happen is gonna be almost happen outside of our purview or our ability to control, which is why we must be earlier rather than late. A lot of times what I'm seeing is most often we're airing on the side of too late. Even to this point to the point of that our Children will believe almost whatever they hear first. It's just scary to think about. So a number of years ago actually, it was two years ago, California mandated that all kindergartens have to teach all 15 genders. I'm not sure where they got 15 from because Facebook has 75-90 something and they're in California. So they haven't tal

 Episode 294 - Session 2 Love Sex Dating and Marriage for Teens - OCEAN Homeschool Conference, Albany, OR - June 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 54:07

Episode 294 - Session 2 Love Sex Dating and Marriage for Teens - OCEAN Homeschool Conference, Albany, OR - June 2022   Episode 294's video link: https://youtu.be/GMHLnvOL0jQ    https://www.oceanetwork.org/   Welcome to HealingLives with Corey Gilbert, a podcast sponsored by the HealingLives Center, discover how to love and lead your family well and biblically God created sex marriage and the family for our stewardship growth and benefit my heart and passion is to teach, train educate and disciple christians that want strong marriages and families. The HealingLives Center has been serving christians since the year 2000. Its mission is to be a center for sex, trauma and marriage education and transformation, where we offer counseling, coaching courses and speaking services to you, your church or ministry. Check us out at HealingLives.com. Today's session is geared towards teens and pre teens, so parents that are listening listen away, but this is for your teen or preteen. Um this is a recording of a seminar that I did Session two at the ocean homeschool conference in june 2022 in Albany Oregon called love sex dating and marriage for teens. Welcome Okay, so this QR code here will take you to the power point later. You wanna it's also the same one on the cards. Um and also the recordings and stuff like that and other things will have to be kind of for this conference. Mr reminder there, but let me start with kind of the elephant in the room in the sense of the title Love sex dating and marriage is kind of in the wrong order. If you haven't noticed, I had a lot of people over there has had this title for a long time. Um and they're like that's the wrong order. I know it sounds better that way. It's also the way we're doing things nowadays. It's messed up. So one of the goals today is to give you a framework that's different. Many of us have heard the word dating and heard the recording, but half of us use it in different ways than others. And so what do we do kind of talk to that? Um this website here, you can actually this, I have a seven hour version of this course. We're gonna cram into this next hour where I really talk through the book of world view and picture of marriage and dating to do this. Well, because I really do believe my heart's passion is that you marry. Well that you actually find someone that your partner, your best friend for life and that you want to do life with and this isn't something you want to come into with collateral damage galore. So how to do that. So teens I'm really gonna be talking to you by the way. So those in the room that are teens, you're my audience. The rest are just here because they thought they had to whatever. So, I'm gonna be talking to you mostly because to me again, this is such a passionate, important thing. Even the let's talk about sex part. Sex is the draw in some sense, but it's not the most important piece of this puzzle when it comes to marriage. I have a classy one that I have icing on the cakes. The sexual part should be a really good part of the US. It's not the most important part. But when I see a client see a couple struggling and they're struggling in their sex life, it's because it's the most important part of that moment. It becomes a deal breaker, which is heartbreaking that we let something so small in some sense, but so precious, hurt us harmless. Um, when you do this, by the way, when you do this whole marriage thing, this is what happens. It's pretty awesome. Best day of my life. I still can't believe it. We're in 19 years. So we're just barely getting started um, incredible what happens. But when this happens then this happens, they start coming like awesome. I think we have kids because the health issues I've had and it's been amazing to see these three experiments is what I call them grow up and realize that they have free will and I don't like that. I just don't. It's like I remind them, you don't have hate the free will you make your own decisions

 Episode 293 - Session 1 Framing the Gender & LGBTQIA Conversation - OCEAN Homeschool Conference, Albany, OR - June 2022 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 52:06

Episode 293 - Session 1 Framing the Gender & LGBTQIA Conversation - OCEAN Homeschool Conference, Albany, OR - June 2022   Episode 293's video Link: https://youtu.be/o1Fmex7o6fU     https://www.oceanetwork.org/    Welcome to HealingLives with Corey Gilbert, a podcast sponsored by the HealingLives Center, discover how to love and lead your family well and biblically God created sex marriage and the family for our stewardship growth and benefit my heart and passion is to teach, train, educate and disciple christians that want strong marriages and families. The Healing Lives Center has been serving Christians since the year 2000. Its mission is to be a center for sex, trauma and marriage education and transformation, where we offer counseling, coaching courses and speaking services to you, your church or ministry check us out at HealingLives.com today   I invite you to listen in on session one from the ocean homeschool conference um delivered in Albany Oregon in june 2022. This one's entitled framing the gender and L G B T Q I a conversation, Thank you thank you. So this QR code here is the same one on those cards. It's gonna be a link to the power points and the videos of this um, everything today. So if you want to even just take that and you can also sign up that way too. So it's either way, hopefully that's helpful for you. Um let's pray to start this really important topic. Dear God, thank you so much for who you are and that you actually called us to be men and women that honor you learn. I just pray for this next hour. We will honor you with everything said and done and I just pray that each of us as parents and our families and our kiddos can learn to honor you with when it comes to their sexuality, their gender who you call them to be blessed this time as you pray. Amen. Alright. So yes, we're gonna talk about sex, that's part of it. But what I'm gonna start with when it comes to this topic is my story. I'm gonna start with kind of where I went where I was and where I come from just a little bit as we enter this topic. But the beginning thing that I want us to think about going into a very difficult topic right here. The people of faith christians who are navigating gender identity issues are our people, they're not some other people, they're not them or those, it's our people, we need to be careful with how we talk about this. So I'm gonna attempt to do the same today as we kind of talked about it. Very difficult subject now. Who am I? I grew up in chile missionary kid um grew up in as a in the Chilean schools. But I was an interesting young man, let's just say um let me show you a few pictures which will help you kind of see where that comes from. Um this is me when we came back to United States in 1992. Um I want a mission trip and someone said to me a missionary said to me, you know what you grew up in a country where you're a redhead white guy stood out like a sore thumb and you came to America and you're a nobody, you did everything you could to stand out and did a really good job of it. I love my pink suit coat and my purple coat and anything I could, my mullet. Um, those are awesome if you need to come back. But and then I even, I wanted my freedom. I came to America and it's like you have to have mommy take you everywhere. And so I bought a motorcycle, didn't even know how to write one. Um, I wanted my freedom. My mom had to take me to Mcdonald's which is where I worked. I hated that. So 18 and I still can't go on my own. So that became my story. What scares me is, where would I be today with what I was actually going through internally Because I had questions about who I was, my identity and one of the key areas was, I wasn't like all the other guys. I didn't like the stuff that guys liked. I didn't talk about politics, couldn't stand sports. There's only one sport in South America, which is soccer. So I played that and after 15 casts I decided I was being called elsewhere when I became a musician an

 Episode 292 - Holy Noticing - An Introduction | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 12:08

Episode 292 - Holy Noticing - An Introduction   Here is the link to order the book "Holy Noticing": https://amzn.to/3BYld6n   Episode 292's Video link: https://youtu.be/P57NYO-wSXY   

 Episode 291 - A Conversation with my 12 year old daughter Mylie on Abortion | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 20:36

Episode 291 - A Conversation with my 12 year old daughter Mylie on Abortion   Link to Episode 291's Video:         https://youtu.be/-QaNF9XD0Uw     

 Episode 290 - A Conversation with my daughter Mylie on AHG - American Heritage Girls | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 13:15

Episode 290 - A Conversation with my daughter Mylie on AHG - American Heritage Girls   A link to Episode 290's Video:         https://youtu.be/jDGNWE8DF7Q     https://americanheritagegirls.org/        

 Episode 289 - A Conversation with Dr. Bill Seynard from the Gospel-App on Parenting Teens Well - With Neuroscience, Attachment Theory, and the Gospel | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 50:19

Episode 289 - A Conversation with Dr. Bill Seynard from the Gospel-App on Parenting Teens Well - With Neuroscience, Attachment Theory, and the Gospel    YouTube Link:             https://youtu.be/YCDn42V5Ddg    ABOUT: Dr. Bill Senyard is an experienced pastor, discipler, church revitalization specialist, lecturer and conference speaker with over 30 years as a local church pastor. He is the author of twelve books and two on-line experiential paths to help people who struggle with identity, relationships,  shame, addiction, loneliness and forgiveness. Want to connect? https://calendly.com/drbillsenyard/connect-with-bill     GO TO: https://gospel-app.com/paths/good-enough-parent/  Good Enough Parent (GEP) is a unique on-line evidence-based experiential journey/course designed to help frustrated and beat-up Christian parents of teens and tweens who struggle with feeling that they are just not good enough. It is totally FREE. Participants will get 15 short (10 minute) video tips-- one-a-day for 15 days. Each tip is immersed in the Gospel and enhanced by the latest in neuroscience and attachment theory. There is nothing like it out there. Check it out, www.goodenoughparent.online   

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