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What do you do after a date with a man when you don’t want to see him again? Maybe he’s a nice guy, the kind of guy your mother would love, but you just don’t have that special spark or chemistry? God knows, you want to like him, you really do.Let’s be honest. He’s not sweeping you off your feet in the romance department. Do you call him back? Give him the cold hard facts? Avoid him like the plague? Give him a second date just to be sure?It’s a tricky thing. I know how hard it is to let someone down. I also know that each and every one of us have been confused and left in the dark when a man disappeared after what seemed to be a great date. It’s a two way street.Do you prefer that he just not tell you? Would you rather hear the cold hard truth? Would you feel better if he told you that he was seeing someone else? Going off to war? Wishing you New Beginnings & Lasting Relationships®

If you've dated online, you know that it can be downright confusing. Do you wink? Call or text after the date? What if he doesn’t call? It is ok to reach out to him? It’s enough to make you crazy. So many rules, so little time!Today’s Ask April will give you tips to help you decide how you wanted to be treated and pursued so you never question yourself or your intuition again.I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Have you had any online dating experiences you'd like to share?Your friend in love,

Some relationships are seasonal and not meant to go the distance. And yet, it’s always so painful to let go and be rational when the one you love breaks up with you. You feel lost, confused and your self-esteem takes a hit.In my private coaching work, I’m helping singles at different parts of their journey. Most are coming to me with residual fall out from their last relationship and can’t seem to stop the “WHY” cycle.Since there isn’t an FDA approved “Get Over My Ex” pill, you have to find a way to heal, move on and put everything into perspective.The good news is that when you truly understand that all of your relationships are VALUABLE, you’ll be able to move through the pain with more ease and less down time. It’s never going to be easy to get over someone you care about. It’s not supposed to be. People are not disposable. You can however put everything into perspective for yourself and focus on the lessons you received during and after your relationship.I hope you enjoy! Feel free to SHARE this video, “Like” it and write your comments below! I’d love to hear your thoughts. Your friend in love,

Do you know what men find so valuable about you?Do you think that eligible, quality men need you to have a great career to take you seriously? I work closely and intimately with these men so I have a lot to say on this subject!In this week’s video, I’ll explain what is truly valuable about you and it’s not your career or the money in your bank account. I’ll also share what you might be doing to sell yourself short in the love department. You don’t want to miss this one!You’re going to learn:Why your job doesn’t make your more or less of a CATCH Why quality men don’t consider your career when considering YOU. What is most alluring and attractive about you (hint: It’s your TRUE “Romantic” VALUE)Please share your questions and comments below. I
 do try and respond to as many as I can and would love to 
hear from you.Your friend in love,

Pop quiz ladies, True or false:Are most men only interested in the pursuit? Do men run hot and cold and need women to be mysterious to keep their interest? If you answered TRUE to one or both of these questions, I’m happy to tell you that the answers are FALSE.I’ve been thinking a lot about this topic. In fact, it’s one of my favorites.In this week’s video, I’ll explain how YOU might be changing the temperature with the men you meet and how they are simply responding to the climate change.There is no time to wait to show your availability and your true self. You need to show this RIGHT AWAY with men. Yes, even your very first date.How do you feel about showing your true self on the 1st date? I can't wait to read comments below.Your friend in love,

One of the most important things I ask every client in an interview is "How much physical affection is important to you?" "How sexual are you?" Men tell me it all in our meetings and its my job to ask! And from what I'm hearing, men are not slowing down in the sex department as they're getting older.Today I'm going to show you how to determine compatibility with someone special in your life. We all have different emotional and physical needs and it’s important that you understand YOURS.Please share your questions and comments below. Let me know how you are enjoying the video series so far! I
 do try and respond to as many as I can and would love to 
hear from you.Your friend in love,

As Dating Coach and Personal Matchmaker I deal with online dating questions daily. All of the women I coach have questions and concerns about profiles, photos and the basic do’s and don’ts.But is it for you? Have you tried to date online only to feel deflated and more confused? Is it something you think you should do but feel it’s not your style? More importantly, does it embarrass you on any level or make you feel a little too vulnerable? God forbid someone you know should see your photo and bio! What then?In today’s video, I’m giving you tips on how to get past the fear of dating online and get moving to create new opportunities for yourself.I’m going to show you:How you’re not alone. Come on! Everyone’s dating online! The common mistake most people make with online photos. How to organize so this doesn’t become your 2nd job. What to write on your profile to get noticed. How to put your fear in check and simplify the process.Your friend in love,

I've got a big question for you today ladies.Are you or anyone you know suffering from the “Do I have to settle to settle down” syndrome? It’s a common question that leaves women feeling unsettled, confused and down right anxious about their dating life.Let’s be honest. At some point, you’ve been in a relationship where you felt like you were settling. Today I'm going to explain how you can instantly tell if you’re settling and why I believe some women are not being SELECTIVE enough!I'm going to show you:How to tell if you're just too picky and missing out on a great man. How to determine the difference between settling and settling down. How you can get super clear about your dream guy by doing a simple exercise.I would love to hear from you! Please post your thoughts right below the video. I do read each and every one of your comments.Until next week, I wish you New Beginnings and Lasting Relationships!Your friend in love,