Freedom Of Fetish
Summary: Welcome to Freedom of Fetish, a sex, relationship, and fetish advice podcast and column hosted by Raven Lightholme. Raven's advice stems from her unique background--a law degree, a bachelor of arts in psychology, and her experience as a lifestyle fetishist. Ask her anything; nothing is too taboo. BDSM, relationships, orgasms, kinks and fetishes, techniques, ways to spice things up, fantasies, experimenting with toys, and taking your sex life outside the bedroom to parties and communities is just the beginning.
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Podcasts:
Episode 36.0: In which Raven speaks with podcaster and smut writer Mia Martina about her new book, A Year of Sex, and answers your open relationship and sex party questions. Check out Mia at AYearOfSex.com, or find her podcast, I Want Your Sex, on iTunes. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 35: In which Raven and her guest, standup comedian Ted Steier, discuss (and make fun of) a whole slew of kinky questions, including breaking the fart barrier, feeder/gainer fetish, and more. Here's to taking things a little less seriously. You can find Ted at http://tedsteier.com. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 34.0: In which Raven and her guest, Princess Kali of KinkAcademy.com and PassionateU.com, talk about humiliation, aluminum toys, how to compliment a woman, crossdressing, BDSM labels, and Kink Academy. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 33: In which Raven talks lady/knight D/s, resources for newbie dominatrixes, potential asexuality, & mental abuse kink. Want to win a 1-year subscription to KinkAcademy.com? In 100 words or less, tell me why you need a year of online kink education. Email Raven at FreedomofFetish dot com. The best entry gets the goods. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 32.0: In which Raven tells you how to pick out the real kinksters from the posers, talks to a crossdresser about his camming and sexuality issues, examines "condom droop," advises a domme on how to get her wimpy boyfriend to man the fuck up, and lists your recommendations for best kink scenes in mainstream movies and TV. The outtro song for this episode is The Toadies - Possum Kingdom. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 31: In which Raven asks Mako and Spacey of The Big Little Podcast all your ABDL (adult baby, diaper lover) and ageplay questions. Part 2/2. You can find part 1 over on The Big Little Podcast, Episode 15, or just click here: http://www.biglittlepodcast.com/2011/05/episode-15-questions-from-freedom-of-fetish/ The outtro music this week is "Slave" by Tritonal. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 30.0: In which Raven answers whether pegging makes you gay (hint: no), finding unique porn, attractions to drag queens, discrimination based on kink, psychotic bloodplay, & first FetLife messages. The outtro this week is "Pretty with the Lights Off" by Megan Jean and the KFB. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, you can reach the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to Raven@FreedomOfFetish.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 29.0: In which Raven discusses being ashamed of your kinks, preserving your privacy in the scene, divisive issues in the fetish community, and post-sex guilt. The outtro music for this episode is Rihanna featuring Britney Spears - S&M (Remix). To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring athttp://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 28.0: In which Raven gives her presentation on privacy protection for pervs, discussing how to protect your identity and control your information online. Next episode we're back to dirty sex; I promise. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. The outtro music for this episode is "In Motion" from The Social Network soundtrack by Trent Reznor & Atticus Ross. Resources related to today's topic: - Abine’s PrivacySuite, a free add-on for Firefox & Internet Explorer (http://www.abine.com) - The Electronic Frontier Foundation (EFF), an organization defending free speech, privacy, innovation, & consumer rights (http://www.eff.org/) - The Federal Trade Commission’s complaint form, used to report websites and companies that abuse their customers’ privacy (https://econsumer.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/) - DeleteMe, a service to delete your unwanted info, search results, and accounts online (http://www.abine.com/deleteme) To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 27.0: In which Raven tries to define what the hell it means to be kinky and interviews professional dominatrix Savannah Sly. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 26.0: In which Raven answers your questions about brother/sister incest, how a bicurious guy can get some action, coming off as more dominant without being a dick, addressing age play, and dressing for fetish events. The outtro song for this episode is Louis XIV - "Pledge of Allegiance." To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 24.0: In which Raven and her polyamorous guest, Kaminaru, discuss getting a reluctant partner to top, quick and sexy restraint ideas, religious hangups, BDSM titles and honorifics, dynamics of kink/vanilla relationships, and sex in marriage. This episode's outtro song is Electric Valentine - Everyone You Know Is On Drugs. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 23.0: In which Raven gets her own embarrassing question answered by Dan Savage and covers violet wands as sterilization devices, email breakups, problems of the young and kinky, kink giveaways in a vanilla world, and sneezing fetish. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, check out www.FreedomOfFetish.com, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 22.0: In which Raven talks FetLife with its creator, John Baku, covering everything from FetLife etiquette to privacy features...and even some horse cock. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
Episode 21.0: In which Raven sits down with Buddy and Sibyl, hypnotist and hypnotized, to answer your questions about erotic hypnosis and give a play-by-play as Sibyl gets hypnotized live on the show. To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308. To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.
