Sexy Marriage Radio

An email from a higher desire husband looking to not take the rejections so personal from his lower desire wife.  A husband wants to go down on his wife after they've had intercourse, yet isn't so sure.  A wife of a video game husband wants to know how to be more solid in confronting the amount of time he plays online and disconnects from the family life.  On the Xtended version ... Creating a more solid sense of self and the art of self-validation. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr

I'm joined by Irene Fehr and we have a conversation about the three types of sex she believe all couples experience in marriage. To learn more about Irene visit her site - https://www.irenefehr.com/ On the Xtended version ... Irene and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics of how you can create better connection in sex. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Please check out the SMRNation Community at my.smrnation.com Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you're faced with choices where there really isn't right or wrong yet, what's the best wise step? An email from a listener asking about ideas to help address issues when there are size differences between spouses. On the Xtended version ... A great quote from Charles Cooley - "I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I am." Let's unpack. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A listener joins me on the air to work through why he fantasizes  so much about his wife's past sexual encounters. On the Xtended version ... We continue the conversation about fantasies but turn it towards the topics of self-control and desire. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

An email from a couple who wonder if allergens can be passed through semen and what are steps to take to prevent this from affecting his wife. Another discussion of the higher desire and lower desire dilemma in married sex. On the Xtended version ... An email from a husband who is really turned on by his wife's past sexual encounters. Is this wrong or sinful? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A husband feels so stuck in a marriage with really lousy sex that's he's thinking of leaving because he's afraid he'll cheat. Another husband emails asking for our thoughts on times when there is expected sex and the amount of pressure his wife feels during those times.  On the Xtended version ... Intimacy in marriage part 4. Why listening is so hard when building more intimacy.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A voicemail from a husband with three questions about his marriage. An email from a newer into marriage couple asking for resources to help spice things up. An email from a wife whose husband has turned into a lazy lover since introducing some sex toys into their encounters together. On the Xtended version ... How to address the conflict and struggle that comes with being more intimate with your spouse. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Registration for the 2021 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway is now open. Click here to learn more.  An email from a husband who married a woman who was married before but he married as a virgin in his 40s. What are our thoughts on the Purity Movements that many of us grew up in and its impact on our married lives as adults. On the Xtended version ... Dealing with roommate syndrome in marriage. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit https://HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping! The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

As we enter into 2021 - what are your 3 Words to help shape your year? An email from a husband, on behalf of his wife, asking about how to venture into the world of self-exploration and sex toys. On the Xtended version ... Perhaps there is a better definition for intimacy. And this definition could change everything. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr

Several members of the SMR Nation join Pam and I as we celebrate 500 episodes. Come enjoy the party! On the Xtended version ... What have we learned from hosting over 500 episodes of hosting SMR? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping! The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A wife emails us to point out that we have missed the boat when it comes to husbands letting themselves go physically and how that impacts sex. An email from a newlywed with a couple of questions about how to last longer and how to change up the order of things when sex is happening. On the Xtended version ... What are some simple things we can do each and every day to increase our connection in marriage and life? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Dr Stephen Snyder joins me again to talk about all things sex. Namely, what if we're doing it all wrong? To learn more about Dr Snyder check out his site https://www.sexualityresource.com/ On the Xtended version ... Stephen and I shift the conversation to the statement he's made before about how better communication can ruin sex. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Tripp Lanier, the host of The New Man Podcast, joins me today to talk about how playing it safe in life will dampen, if not destroy passion and energy in life and marriage. Hear more from Tripp here https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ On the Xtended version ... Tripp and I continue the conversation about living a dangerous life and how this has played out in Tripp's personal life. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... AcornTV: Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to https://acorn.tv and use our promo code smr. Hello Fresh: Visit https://HelloFresh.com/smr90 and use code smr90 to get a total of $90 off, including free shipping on your first box.

Pam and I have a Coffee Shop Conversation about the question: How often are complaints by your spouse heard as a request? An email from a husband who repeatedly is looking for ways to get his wife interested in sex, yet is met with phrases like "All you ever think about is sex" or "Quit looking at me like a piece of meat." On the Xtended version ... What is it that makes us so afraid of being alone? Does the idea of sitting alone in a room with no distractions terrify you? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr

Dr J.W. Freiberg, "Terry", joins me to discuss the epidemic of loneliness. It is a far too common issue and has negative results on our health and life. Learn more about Terry at his site http://thelonelinessbooks.com/ On the Xtended version ... Terry and I continue our conversation about loneliness - in particular the seasons of loneliness that we all will face. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr Story Worth: Give your loved ones the gift of spending time together, wherever you live. https://storyworth.com/smr The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union