Sexy Marriage Radio

A past episode with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the Higher Desire/Lower Desire dynamic. Specifically about how this often plays out for the lower desire wife. On the Xtended version ... Our conversation continues with Dr Jennifer and her research on the subject of religion and desire. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... MELT: Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day

A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day On the Xtended version ... A behind the scenes conversation with Denis about how MELT has impacted his life and what he's learned. Plus he turns the table on Dr Allan. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Songfinch: Use our code SMR for a total of $70 off the perfect Father's Day gift, this week only. Thrive CAUSEmetics: Their Bigger Than Beauty mission is truly inspiring!  Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/SMR for 15% off your first order!

An email from a newly-married wife who is interested in sex more in the evening while her husband in interested in the mornings. Plus, he masturbates regularly during the day. A message from Instagram asking what kind of feedback we get from our willingness to talk frankly about sex and relationships. On the Xtended version ... A husband emails asking how to bring up the subject of sex when for 18 years it's been clear it's not something his wife will talk about. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Today we try go rapid fire again and still don't get to all the questions submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio Just a hint of the topics we cover: Oral sex, honeymoon tips, speaking up, anal sex, friends, talking about likes and a whole lot more! On the Xtended version ... We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on sexual dreams, libido and cycles, moods, and toys. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A voicemail from a husband about their therapist's advice that the should not have sex for the next 4 months. A husband emails about how his wife will not allow herself to have an orgasm. An email from a soon to be divorced man wondering what he will do about his sex drive when single. On the Xtended version ... Retroactive jealously and judgment. And how do we view our spouse's past. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive. On the Xtended version ... A husband wants to know how to extend the sex sessions with his wife when they only happen twice a year. They both are in a Two-Choice Dilemma. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here. Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2. A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him. A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband interested in sex. On the Xtended version ... The benefits of boredom and routine and the small steps you can take create a better path forward. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Thrive CAUSEmetics: Their Bigger Than Beauty mission is truly inspiring!  Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/SMR for 15% off your first order!

Everyone get the full show today. I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio Just a hint of the topics we cover: Oral sex, sizes, fetishes, first time and wedding night, talking about sex and a whole lot more! On the Xtended version ... We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on threesomes, pain during sex, past trauma and abuse, and shame. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea and we discuss her work on helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage.  To learn more about Emily visit her site - https://emilyjamea.com/ On the Xtended version ... Emily and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics about her research and the whys behind her findings.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr12 use code smr12 for 12 free meals, including free shipping!”

An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today. A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has now found a position that is pain free - now she's anxious about trying out new positions. On the Xtended version ... We unpack the concept of lust as mentioned in Matthew 5:27-30. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Thrive CAUSEmetics: Their Bigger Than Beauty mission is truly inspiring!  Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/SMR for 15% off your first order!

Bouncing your eyes is one way to avoid the temptations around us, but what about steering your energy as well? An email from a husband who is wondering if ruining his orgasm would help his quick ejaculation issue.  On the Xtended version ... A wonderful tool for helping you determine your responsibilities in the issues you face in life. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves. An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower desire for romance. Is that odd? On the Xtended version ... A recording of a talk Corey gave at church about how do I see myself and how does God see me? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

How does a husband help his wife be more confident, while also helping his teenage daughter be less confident?  A husband is confident at work, yet struggles to being that same presence to home. A higher desire wife struggles initiating due to fear of rejection and they both have struggled with masturbation throughout their lives.  On the Xtended version ... Moments of meeting. Perhaps this is a better way to frame what many of us are really looking for in marriage and life.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so. An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire and spontaneous drive vs responsive drive. Is solo sex harmful to your health? What about sex outside of marriage? A husband can't shake his desire to explore a more free lifestyle now that marriage and kids and responsibilities have taken over his life.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union