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Summary: X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast. Spirited discussion about dating and relationships hosted by Scot and Emily McKay. What you hear is guaranteed to be unique and often hilarious but ALWAYS useful. All killer, no filler. Based on the popular newsletter from X & Y Communications (www.relationship-advice.us).

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 Episode 55--X & Y On The Fly--Blowing Up The Chemistry Lab | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

There are certain so-called experts out there who would say two people sharing 'chemistry' between them is a BAD thing. What's up with that? Does it have anything to do with the fact there can be chemistry between two people who don't even LIKE each other? Or is it mostly people who don't have chemistry in their own relationships who say it doesn't matter? But what IS chemistry, anyway? Is it something literal, perhaps generated by pheromones? Or is there an actual chemical bond between couples? Whatever it is, it results in an intangible 'it' factor between two people that makes a relationship, well...more relatable. So what does chemistry LOOK like? How do you know when it's happening? Do only certain types of people experience it? Is someone you experience chemistry with likely your 'soulmate'? What happens when couples with chemistry change over time? What are the traits of people who find chemistry with MOTOS often? How can you find the balance between the fireworks of chemistry and other necessary components of a healthy relationship? Can chemistry come in different forms? Finally, stay tuned until the very end because we throw a big-time wrench into the works. Find the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. The program on how to have a great long-term relationship is finally available. Find the men's version at http://www.gettogetherstaytogether.com and the women's version at http://www.scotandemily.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 55--X & Y On The Fly--Blowing Up The Chemistry Lab | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

There are certain so-called experts out there who would say two people sharing 'chemistry' between them is a BAD thing. What's up with that? Does it have anything to do with the fact there can be chemistry between two people who don't even LIKE each other? Or is it mostly people who don't have chemistry in their own relationships who say it doesn't matter? But what IS chemistry, anyway? Is it something literal, perhaps generated by pheromones? Or is there an actual chemical bond between couples? Whatever it is, it results in an intangible 'it' factor between two people that makes a relationship, well...more relatable. So what does chemistry LOOK like? How do you know when it's happening? Do only certain types of people experience it? Is someone you experience chemistry with likely your 'soulmate'? What happens when couples with chemistry change over time? What are the traits of people who find chemistry with MOTOS often? How can you find the balance between the fireworks of chemistry and other necessary components of a healthy relationship? Can chemistry come in different forms? Finally, stay tuned until the very end because we throw a big-time wrench into the works. Find the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. The program on how to have a great long-term relationship is finally available. Find the men's version at http://www.gettogetherstaytogether.com and the women's version at http://www.scotandemily.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 54--X & Y On The Fly--How Men Talk About Women When They're Not Around | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

First and foremost, you can find the OPPOSITE conversation on how women talk about men when they're not around over on episode 134 of The Mountain Top Podcast. It's a barnburner just like this one. In THIS episode, however, we talk about drunk confessions, what goes on during men-only excursions, how men treat their 'henpecked' or 'p-whipped' friends, and how they talk about their own girlfriends as opposed to each other's girlfriends. We also cover how men's demeanor in general changes outside of 'mixed company', the surprising and brutally-honest differences between how boys and mature men talk about women, and how men handle the problem of women who are easily offended. You're also in for a breakdown of how accurate cinematic portrayals of men-only conversations are, and how Clint Eastwood got it right in Gran Torino. Find the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. The brand new program on how to have a great long-term relationship is finally available. Find the men's version at http://www.gettogetherstaytogether.com and the women's version at http://www.scotandemily.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 54--X & Y On The Fly--How Men Talk About Women When They're Not Around | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

First and foremost, you can find the OPPOSITE conversation on how women talk about men when they're not around over on episode 134 of The Mountain Top Podcast. It's a barnburner just like this one. In THIS episode, however, we talk about drunk confessions, what goes on during men-only excursions, how men treat their 'henpecked' or 'p-whipped' friends, and how they talk about their own girlfriends as opposed to each other's girlfriends. We also cover how men's demeanor in general changes outside of 'mixed company', the surprising and brutally-honest differences between how boys and mature men talk about women, and how men handle the problem of women who are easily offended. You're also in for a breakdown of how accurate cinematic portrayals of men-only conversations are, and how Clint Eastwood got it right in Gran Torino. Find the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. The brand new program on how to have a great long-term relationship is finally available. Find the men's version at http://www.gettogetherstaytogether.com and the women's version at http://www.scotandemily.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 53--X & Y On The Fly--Why Do Men And Women Have Such A Hard Time Meeting Each Other? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Given how complicated men and women make it to meet and attract each other, it's a miracle there are seven-and-a-half billion of us on this planet, right? With us to explore what makes it all so difficult is none other than fellow dating coach Mike Goldstein from New York City. What has happened in our post-modern world that keeps men and women apart? Was it really easier int he 'good old days'? Why is it that everyone seems so shy, and have the social protocols we've put in place done more harm than good to the whole process? Oh...and what in the world are we to do if we don't meet our 'forever' someone in high school or college? Is there really never again that kind of boy/girl bonanza in our adult lives? Look forward to thought-provoking answers to all of these questions along with a bunch of other humorous and interesting surprises in this fun-filled episode. Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 53--X & Y On The Fly--Why Do Men And Women Have Such A Hard Time Meeting Each Other? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Given how complicated men and women make it to meet and attract each other, it's a miracle there are seven-and-a-half billion of us on this planet, right? With us to explore what makes it all so difficult is none other than fellow dating coach Mike Goldstein from New York City. What has happened in our post-modern world that keeps men and women apart? Was it really easier int he 'good old days'? Why is it that everyone seems so shy, and have the social protocols we've put in place done more harm than good to the whole process? Oh...and what in the world are we to do if we don't meet our 'forever' someone in high school or college? Is there really never again that kind of boy/girl bonanza in our adult lives? Look forward to thought-provoking answers to all of these questions along with a bunch of other humorous and interesting surprises in this fun-filled episode. Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 52--X & Y On The Fly--Why All The Controversy Surrounding Masculinity And Femininity? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

After millennia of assumptive coexistence, the idea of masculine/feminine polarity is under fire. Is it all really a societal construct designed to oppress women, or are the very building blocks of sexual attraction at stake here? Relationship coaches Brody and Antia Boyd sit in with us to hit this issue with a big, heavy hammer once and for all. Is masculinity all about 'penetration'...and is that what angry women find so offensive? Meanwhile, why is it that a woman might pronounce masculinity as 'toxic', only to claim it for herself? Is it that femininity represents 'the weaker sex', or could it be that femininity is actually the higher calling? How do men reconcile political correctness with the wild popularity 50 Shades Of Grey? What is the 'JBBA Zone'? Is the new, evolved masculine role for men to 'hold the container'...and what does that mean, exactly? And most importantly...what really goes on at those sex toy parties for women? Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 52--X & Y On The Fly--Why All The Controversy Surrounding Masculinity And Femininity? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

After millennia of assumptive coexistence, the idea of masculine/feminine polarity is under fire. Is it all really a societal construct designed to oppress women, or are the very building blocks of sexual attraction at stake here? Relationship coaches Brody and Antia Boyd sit in with us to hit this issue with a big, heavy hammer once and for all. Is masculinity all about 'penetration'...and is that what angry women find so offensive? Meanwhile, why is it that a woman might pronounce masculinity as 'toxic', only to claim it for herself? Is it that femininity represents 'the weaker sex', or could it be that femininity is actually the higher calling? How do men reconcile political correctness with the wild popularity 50 Shades Of Grey? What is the 'JBBA Zone'? Is the new, evolved masculine role for men to 'hold the container'...and what does that mean, exactly? And most importantly...what really goes on at those sex toy parties for women? Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 51--X & Y On The Fly--How Can Couples Help Each Other Grow As Individuals? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Just because you and your significant other are now a couple doesn't mean you stop being two individual humans. Joining us this time are Stephen and Theresa from Ownstream, who do a lot of thinking about this important subject. What's the difference between supporting someone to grow vs. trying to get them to change? If you know something's good for your partner, how do you get them to come along without forcing the issue? Is there a right way to frame a conversation with your partner that motivates both of you to grow more...together? We also discuss the importance of breaking away from the same-old patterns,and how to do that in the most productive way possible instead of disrupting a great relationship. Also, why predictability in a relationship might or might not be good for your relationship. As an added bonus, you get the world's most amazingly effective but counter-intuitive strategy for getting infants to fall asleep in the car. Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 51--X & Y On The Fly--How Can Couples Help Each Other Grow As Individuals? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Just because you and your significant other are now a couple doesn't mean you stop being two individual humans. Joining us this time are Stephen and Theresa from Ownstream, who do a lot of thinking about this important subject. What's the difference between supporting someone to grow vs. trying to get them to change? If you know something's good for your partner, how do you get them to come along without forcing the issue? Is there a right way to frame a conversation with your partner that motivates both of you to grow more...together? We also discuss the importance of breaking away from the same-old patterns,and how to do that in the most productive way possible instead of disrupting a great relationship. Also, why predictability in a relationship might or might not be good for your relationship. As an added bonus, you get the world's most amazingly effective but counter-intuitive strategy for getting infants to fall asleep in the car. Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 50--X & Y On The Fly--What We Have Here Is Failure To Communicate | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

How do we go this many episodes without covering this insanely important factor in a healthy relationship? Derek and Heidi from Uncharted Family sit in with us for a fast-paced (and hilarious, as usual) rant on 36-hour anniversaries, non-awkward silences, and seeing each other at our worst. Is being 'cordial' with each other a sign of trouble? Does throwing plates like in The Godfather count as 'communication'? More importantly...can you really 'go screw yourself' in a marriage? Discover the profound connection between communication and trust, plus find out how to keep your communication skills finely tuned so that you don't lose them. As always, check out the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 50--X & Y On The Fly--What We Have Here Is Failure To Communicate | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

How do we go this many episodes without covering this insanely important factor in a healthy relationship? Derek and Heidi from Uncharted Family sit in with us for a fast-paced (and hilarious, as usual) rant on 36-hour anniversaries, non-awkward silences, and seeing each other at our worst. Is being 'cordial' with each other a sign of trouble? Does throwing plates like in The Godfather count as 'communication'? More importantly...can you really 'go screw yourself' in a marriage? Discover the profound connection between communication and trust, plus find out how to keep your communication skills finely tuned so that you don't lose them. As always, check out the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 49--X & Y On The Fly--The Honeymoon Phase | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

After over two years of radio silence, it's time to fire up the XYOTF engine again. What better way than to invite our friends Justin Stenstrom and Sarah Rudin from The Elite Man to join us for an epic breakdown of the infamous Honeymoon Phase? What is it anyway? And does it have to end? Is there really a stage BEFORE the Honeymoon Phase, and another (or several) after it? What happens if a couple forces a honeymoon to happen when they really should have broken up? Is getting cranky when you're hungry or tired a sign the Honeymoon Phase is fading away, or do you actually just need your morning coffee? Well, the novelty may wear off, but if you're fortunate (and built to last as a couple) you'll trade that for something even better...and yes, it's more than just love. All told, you can look forward to an unusually entertaining show full of laughs. And wait until you hear who gets to do the dishes from now on... Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 49--X & Y On The Fly--The Honeymoon Phase | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

After over two years of radio silence, it's time to fire up the XYOTF engine again. What better way than to invite our friends Justin Stenstrom and Sarah Rudin from The Elite Man to join us for an epic breakdown of the infamous Honeymoon Phase? What is it anyway? And does it have to end? Is there really a stage BEFORE the Honeymoon Phase, and another (or several) after it? What happens if a couple forces a honeymoon to happen when they really should have broken up? Is getting cranky when you're hungry or tired a sign the Honeymoon Phase is fading away, or do you actually just need your morning coffee? Well, the novelty may wear off, but if you're fortunate (and built to last as a couple) you'll trade that for something even better...and yes, it's more than just love. All told, you can look forward to an unusually entertaining show full of laughs. And wait until you hear who gets to do the dishes from now on... Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 48--X & Y On The Fly--His Friends, Her Friends, Our Friends...Then NO Friends? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

So you've got a new 'significant other'? Great...now what about your friends? How do you keep your friends from jealously sabotaging your relationship? In fact, how do you keep your friends in general? And what if the friend we're talking about here is your roommate? What are some solid strategies for couples who want to make friends with other couples? There are definitely some surprise pitfalls that you may have never considered before...all thrown out on the table in this triumphant return of the X & Y On The Fly Dating Podcast. By the way...throw any good parties lately? Welcome to yet ANOTHER way friendship dynamics change once you're in a relationship. Did we mention what happens when kids come along? Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. We discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, we'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

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