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X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships

Summary: X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast. Spirited discussion about dating and relationships hosted by Scot and Emily McKay. What you hear is guaranteed to be unique and often hilarious but ALWAYS useful. All killer, no filler. Based on the popular newsletter from X & Y Communications (www.relationship-advice.us).

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 Episode 54--X & Y On The Fly--How Men Talk About Women When They're Not Around | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

First and foremost, you can find the OPPOSITE conversation on how women talk about men when they're not around over on episode 134 of The Mountain Top Podcast. It's a barnburner just like this one. In THIS episode, however, we talk about drunk confessions, what goes on during men-only excursions, how men treat their 'henpecked' or 'p-whipped' friends, and how they talk about their own girlfriends as opposed to each other's girlfriends. We also cover how men's demeanor in general changes outside of 'mixed company', the surprising and brutally-honest differences between how boys and mature men talk about women, and how men handle the problem of women who are easily offended. You're also in for a breakdown of how accurate cinematic portrayals of men-only conversations are, and how Clint Eastwood got it right in Gran Torino. Find the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. The brand new program on how to have a great long-term relationship is finally available. Find the men's version at http://www.gettogetherstaytogether.com and the women's version at http://www.scotandemily.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 53--X & Y On The Fly--Why Do Men And Women Have Such A Hard Time Meeting Each Other? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Given how complicated men and women make it to meet and attract each other, it's a miracle there are seven-and-a-half billion of us on this planet, right? With us to explore what makes it all so difficult is none other than fellow dating coach Mike Goldstein from New York City. What has happened in our post-modern world that keeps men and women apart? Was it really easier int he 'good old days'? Why is it that everyone seems so shy, and have the social protocols we've put in place done more harm than good to the whole process? Oh...and what in the world are we to do if we don't meet our 'forever' someone in high school or college? Is there really never again that kind of boy/girl bonanza in our adult lives? Look forward to thought-provoking answers to all of these questions along with a bunch of other humorous and interesting surprises in this fun-filled episode. Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 52--X & Y On The Fly--Why All The Controversy Surrounding Masculinity And Femininity? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

After millennia of assumptive coexistence, the idea of masculine/feminine polarity is under fire. Is it all really a societal construct designed to oppress women, or are the very building blocks of sexual attraction at stake here? Relationship coaches Brody and Antia Boyd sit in with us to hit this issue with a big, heavy hammer once and for all. Is masculinity all about 'penetration'...and is that what angry women find so offensive? Meanwhile, why is it that a woman might pronounce masculinity as 'toxic', only to claim it for herself? Is it that femininity represents 'the weaker sex', or could it be that femininity is actually the higher calling? How do men reconcile political correctness with the wild popularity 50 Shades Of Grey? What is the 'JBBA Zone'? Is the new, evolved masculine role for men to 'hold the container'...and what does that mean, exactly? And most importantly...what really goes on at those sex toy parties for women? Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 51--X & Y On The Fly--How Can Couples Help Each Other Grow As Individuals? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Just because you and your significant other are now a couple doesn't mean you stop being two individual humans. Joining us this time are Stephen and Theresa from Ownstream, who do a lot of thinking about this important subject. What's the difference between supporting someone to grow vs. trying to get them to change? If you know something's good for your partner, how do you get them to come along without forcing the issue? Is there a right way to frame a conversation with your partner that motivates both of you to grow more...together? We also discuss the importance of breaking away from the same-old patterns,and how to do that in the most productive way possible instead of disrupting a great relationship. Also, why predictability in a relationship might or might not be good for your relationship. As an added bonus, you get the world's most amazingly effective but counter-intuitive strategy for getting infants to fall asleep in the car. Find pictures and links at the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for Scot's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com and Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 50--X & Y On The Fly--What We Have Here Is Failure To Communicate | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

How do we go this many episodes without covering this insanely important factor in a healthy relationship? Derek and Heidi from Uncharted Family sit in with us for a fast-paced (and hilarious, as usual) rant on 36-hour anniversaries, non-awkward silences, and seeing each other at our worst. Is being 'cordial' with each other a sign of trouble? Does throwing plates like in The Godfather count as 'communication'? More importantly...can you really 'go screw yourself' in a marriage? Discover the profound connection between communication and trust, plus find out how to keep your communication skills finely tuned so that you don't lose them. As always, check out the show notes page at http://www.scotandemily.com/podcast. Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 49--X & Y On The Fly--The Honeymoon Phase | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

After over two years of radio silence, it's time to fire up the XYOTF engine again. What better way than to invite our friends Justin Stenstrom and Sarah Rudin from The Elite Man to join us for an epic breakdown of the infamous Honeymoon Phase? What is it anyway? And does it have to end? Is there really a stage BEFORE the Honeymoon Phase, and another (or several) after it? What happens if a couple forces a honeymoon to happen when they really should have broken up? Is getting cranky when you're hungry or tired a sign the Honeymoon Phase is fading away, or do you actually just need your morning coffee? Well, the novelty may wear off, but if you're fortunate (and built to last as a couple) you'll trade that for something even better...and yes, it's more than just love. All told, you can look forward to an unusually entertaining show full of laughs. And wait until you hear who gets to do the dishes from now on... Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 48--X & Y On The Fly--His Friends, Her Friends, Our Friends...Then NO Friends? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

So you've got a new 'significant other'? Great...now what about your friends? How do you keep your friends from jealously sabotaging your relationship? In fact, how do you keep your friends in general? And what if the friend we're talking about here is your roommate? What are some solid strategies for couples who want to make friends with other couples? There are definitely some surprise pitfalls that you may have never considered before...all thrown out on the table in this triumphant return of the X & Y On The Fly Dating Podcast. By the way...throw any good parties lately? Welcome to yet ANOTHER way friendship dynamics change once you're in a relationship. Did we mention what happens when kids come along? Sign up for the men's newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Ladies, you can subscribe to Emily's newsletter at http://www.clickwithhim.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 47--X & Y On The Fly--Parenthood: The Greatest Birth Control Method Ever | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Okay, it's been almost four years since the subject of 'kids' has been brought up on this show, and there's plenty more to discuss nowadays. After all, having children changes the dynamics of an allegedly romantic relationship between a man and a woman, so this is important stuff. And don't 'kid yourself' (pun intended), what's talked about in this episode matters A LOT whether you're a parent just yet or not. Be sure to 'like' our newly-updated Facebook Page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. Grab a free special report on reconnecting with 'old flames' on Facebook when you do. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 46--X & Y On The Fly--Is A Great Relationship Really A Lot Of 'Work'? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

We've all heard the old, worn-out cliche time and again...'If you want a great relationship with your significant other, you're going to have to WORK ON IT every single day.' But do we take that at face value without ever stopping to consider what that really means? And is it even TRUE to begin with? Listen in as Scot and Emily get down to the heart of the matter, dispelling old stereotypes while at the same time opening up entirely new 'cans of worms' in the process. Be sure to 'like' our new Facebook Page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. Join the community and enjoy tons of free stuff. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 45--X & Y On The Fly--Open Relationships | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Get ready for a no-holds-barred discussion on all sorts of non-monogamous relationships. Swingers and 'The Lifestyle'? The 'don't ask / don't tell' policy of the rich and famous? Bisexual trysts? The creative possibilities appear to be endless. So is it true that couples who have an 'open relationship' are enjoying better sex lives? Are they happier overall? And do they actually trust each other more...or less? Scot and Emily swap opinions about all of that and more...but we'll let you figure out whether it's 'full swapping' or just 'soft swapping'. Guys, The Man's Approach is finally here. Check it out at: http://www.themansapproach.com. Ladies, discover the new, true you with Emily's Attraction Makeover program: http://www.attraction-makeover.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 44--X & Y On The Fly--Hey Jealousy | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Where are you? Who were you with? What's more annoying, having to ask questions like that or being on the receiving end of them? Well, in this episode, besides proving that the show is still in production after all, Scot and Emily give you the lowdown on jealousy. What is it anyway? And how can you tell for sure if those jealous feelings you've been having are reasonable? Every angle is explored, including what causes 'habitual jealousy' (along with what cures it), and what to do if you find yourself with an overly jealous partner. Guys, if you're ready to confidently approach high quality women, but don't necessarily want to be a pickup artist, be on the lookout for The Man's Approach...coming soon: http://www.themansapproach.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 43--X & Y On The Fly--You Can't Live With 'Em, And You Can't Shoot 'Em | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Let's face it, whether you're a man or a woman there are things about the opposite gender that tend to drive you nuts. Why do they do all that annoying stuff? Well, in this episode you'll get straight answers once and for all from both Scot and Emily...even though they may not be the answers you want to hear. Yet the fact remains that we somehow still love MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) anyway, don't we? All of this nonsense can only make for a particularly spirited and humorous episode this time around. Guys, the new program on how to understand women better is Chick Whispering, which you can find at http://www.chickwhispering.com. Ladies, unravel the mysteries of men with Emily's Attraction Makeover program: http://www.attraction-makeover.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 42--X & Y On The Fly--First Dates That Lead To Second Dates | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Going on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience for someone of either gender. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as Scot and Emily talk about simple ways to prepare for first dates, make sure conversation flows easily, ignite the sparks of attraction and--of course--get the second date. Sure, we all know that hitting someone with 'interview questions' is a bad idea already, so plan on discovering some innovative GOOD ideas instead that are sure-fire winners. And guys, be sure to check out Scot's new program for men who are ready to start naturally attracting the women they want the most. It's called The Master Plan and you can watch free videos and check it out here: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 41--X & Y On The Fly--Movie Moments | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

What is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild? Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire? Scot and Emily look to uncover all the secrets the motion picture industry has to share, from the early classics all the way through to the present. You'll also find out what NOT to do, courtesy of some case studies in truly bad game brought to you on the silver screen over the years. Be sure to snag Scot's FREE new e-book on how to meet someone on Twitter by visiting http://www.twiduction.com. Also, Emily's brand new Attraction Makeover program has arrived--see the free video at http://www.attraction-makeover.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

 Episode 40--X & Y On The Fly--Dating When Kids Are In The Picture | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

Are you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you. With their son just about to celebrate his first birthday, Emily and Scot reveal their strategies for having a real, actual love life even when you've got rugrats in the house...or even teenagers, which presents its own set of challenges. They also share every blasted secret they have from their single parent days, along with some new ones they wish they'd thought of before. Get a FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Plus, join the X & Communications Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily and get free stuff. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As they say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

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